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PostSubject: Unfair.   Sat Mar 27, 2010 3:15 pm

They say all things happen for a reason n all that but i am now seriously doubting there is any kind of god.

My neice has been told today that there is nothing more anyone can do for her little girl Pheobe,Up untill Dec she was a perfectly happy and healthy 1 year old and now they are saying she is dying its just so unfair.

And i cant even speak to my brother cause i just dont know what to say to him,I love him dearly but what do i say?

A smile a day keeps suicide at bay!
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PostSubject: Re: Unfair.   Sat Mar 27, 2010 5:11 pm

I love you
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PostSubject: Re: Unfair.   Sun Mar 28, 2010 11:07 pm

There is no fooking god, life sucks when you hear stuff like that Crying or Very sad
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PostSubject: Re: Unfair.   Mon Mar 29, 2010 5:55 am

Just be strong for your brother.

Acknowledge his concerns, get him to open up about how he feels when he's ready, empathise, hold him, hug him.

If he is feeling like he has to be strong for his daughter and her mother maybe it will be good for him to know that you are there for him to say what he is feeling without being concerned about feeling foolish or inept himself, because how do you express grief when you are mostly worried about how your child feels freely without feeling selfish?

Be open with him, call him and ask him how he is and let him know you are thinking about him, just like you, he might be feeling at a loss as to how to approach his daughter...if he can use you as a sounding board to get out his feelings on ..to rant to..it may help him to find the strength and words to comfort those nearest to him at the moment.

I'm really sorry to hear your news....I'll pray for a miracle anyway and I hope you all find something to smile about together again soon.

I think you just need to be completely non-judgemental and to remind him that you are there for him always.
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PostSubject: Re: Unfair.   Mon Mar 29, 2010 8:43 am

I dont understand all this things happen for a reason either buggs... its a cop out.

Just give him and your neice a massive hug and let them know youre there if need be, nothing you can ever say will ever take the pain away that they feelin so just be yourself and be there when needed

((( hugs )))

* Of All The Things I've Lost I Miss My Mind The Most *
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PostSubject: Re: Unfair.   Mon Mar 29, 2010 8:55 pm

Sorry to hear that Buggs, my heart goes out to them.

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PostSubject: Re: Unfair.   Mon Mar 29, 2010 9:04 pm

I really fail to see how anyone can have faith at times such as these
Thinking of you Lal and you Fairy xx
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PostSubject: Re: Unfair.   Mon Mar 29, 2010 9:48 pm

I said that today, how can shit happen like that, if god were real hes a cruel old bastard, take the sick twisted fookers instead Evil or Very Mad
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PostSubject: Re: Unfair.   Fri Apr 09, 2010 3:44 am

How are you all getting along for the moment?
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