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PostSubject: I've got a whinge about people who edit and splice their lives and are not complete as a result!!   Mon Jul 28, 2008 12:11 pm

I've been giving some serious thought lately to the notion of people denying who they are..

What I mean is, to everybody else they are very obviously what or who they are but they try really hard to cover their tracks and deny it all.

Not everybody does this of course because most sensible people know it is better to be yourself as it causes less hassle in the long run.

An example of someone being in denial would be the gay bloke or woman who pretends they aren't, quite possibly to save the feelings of family members or friends but they often find when they finally come out that everybody knew anyway and it wasn't the secret they thought it was.

I know someone who is currently going through this process but he's not gay. He is who he is but it seems he doesn't like himself very much and due to his obsequious nature and inherent desire to please everybody he is - to me- displaying an extreme lack of a backbone through denial and mental erasure of things like situations and people he's experienced which explain a lot about who he is.

I can't help wondering what on earth he is so fearful of, and what it is he imagines could be the worst outcome of his actually being open and honest ?

It's a mystery............and I am whinging because now that I've caught the scent of this strange thing I've become insatiably curious and I'm afraid I may stop at nothing to get to the bottom of this and discover once and for all what is going on, what could possibly have wrought this extreme paranoia etc.

But I'm also thinking what a shame that anybody would consider something in their life to be such a dirty little secret that they would go to quite long lengths to hide it.

There's lots of things I've done in my life which were embarrassing, foolish and where I used bad judgement - but I'd never be ashamed of anything I've ever done because it makes me who I am and I like myself even if lots of other people don't.


I'm so glad I got that out of my system !!!!


P.S. don't worry about replying sensibly to this post because it's really just a whinge and not a major issue for me and I'm pretty sure I've written it badly and once read the reader will say to themself "WTF was that all about ?"
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PostSubject: Re: I've got a whinge about people who edit and splice their lives and are not complete as a result!!   Mon Jul 28, 2008 12:19 pm

wtf was all that about
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PostSubject: Re: I've got a whinge about people who edit and splice their lives and are not complete as a result!!   Mon Jul 28, 2008 1:05 pm

I've got lots of dirty little secrets, aint that right naisy......
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PostSubject: Re: I've got a whinge about people who edit and splice their lives and are not complete as a result!!   Mon Jul 28, 2008 2:00 pm

Desire.....you owe me three minutes
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PostSubject: Re: I've got a whinge about people who edit and splice their lives and are not complete as a result!!   Mon Jul 28, 2008 2:07 pm

Woz wrote:
I've got lots of dirty little secrets, aint that right naisy......

As well as dirty ,manky feets from ya man flops.....

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PostSubject: Re: I've got a whinge about people who edit and splice their lives and are not complete as a result!!   Mon Jul 28, 2008 2:29 pm

Shut it pool perv!
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PostSubject: Re: I've got a whinge about people who edit and splice their lives and are not complete as a result!!   Mon Jul 28, 2008 2:39 pm

*Shuts up as the man is right for a change*

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PostSubject: Re: I've got a whinge about people who edit and splice their lives and are not complete as a result!!   Mon Jul 28, 2008 3:01 pm

EH?! are you feeling ok?
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PostSubject: Re: I've got a whinge about people who edit and splice their lives and are not complete as a result!!   Mon Jul 28, 2008 3:04 pm

Yup.....I is great ta

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PostSubject: Re: I've got a whinge about people who edit and splice their lives and are not complete as a result!!   Mon Jul 28, 2008 3:58 pm

Yes Woz but they will always stay close to my heart and never be revealed













For a price
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PostSubject: Re: I've got a whinge about people who edit and splice their lives and are not complete as a result!!   Mon Jul 28, 2008 4:10 pm

Naisy wrote:
Yes Woz but they will always stay close to my heart and never be revealed













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Four pack of stella?
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PostSubject: Re: I've got a whinge about people who edit and splice their lives and are not complete as a result!!   Mon Jul 28, 2008 4:21 pm

Done ;-)
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PostSubject: Re: I've got a whinge about people who edit and splice their lives and are not complete as a result!!   Mon Jul 28, 2008 4:29 pm

Way too easy.
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PostSubject: Re: I've got a whinge about people who edit and splice their lives and are not complete as a result!!   Mon Jul 28, 2008 4:33 pm

Oer I read that as four PACKS
Not a sodding four pack
Pfft you have to try harder than that Mr
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PostSubject: Re: I've got a whinge about people who edit and splice their lives and are not complete as a result!!   Mon Jul 28, 2008 4:36 pm

I'll throw in a kebab.
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PostSubject: Re: I've got a whinge about people who edit and splice their lives and are not complete as a result!!   Mon Jul 28, 2008 4:37 pm

Now yer talking
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PostSubject: Re: I've got a whinge about people who edit and splice their lives and are not complete as a result!!   Tue Jul 29, 2008 2:23 pm

I pretend i dont smoke to keep my dad happy, is that the same thing?
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PostSubject: Re: I've got a whinge about people who edit and splice their lives and are not complete as a result!!   Tue Jul 29, 2008 2:26 pm

That is being a big fat fiblet......

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PostSubject: Re: I've got a whinge about people who edit and splice their lives and are not complete as a result!!   Tue Jul 29, 2008 2:33 pm

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